the agenda
May 22nd, 2009While I won’t claim to have well formed career goals, and my life goals are few, I do have reasonably well defined goals for the rearing of my children. I became a parent because I wanted someone with whom to share all the coolest things in life – steam trains, warm rain puddles, s’mores, cherry tomatoes… And like all parents, I want my children to grow up happy, healthy, and polite, and to become successful. But, along the way I want to nurture in them a passion for endurance sports, a love of science and an appreciation for music and the arts. The latter is the hard one for me, having been raised by engineers who were more biased towards science, and having had little formal training in either music or the arts. Not that our household lacked creativity. Quite the contrary. But, I lacked formal training. So here we are – the kids enrolled in swimming lessons, running off to soccer, running, riding, doing science experiements, and just about ready to begin their music training, but I am at a loss. I want my children to learn to play an instrument, but when and what?
I’ve been eyeing these kid sized guitars from First Act. I think we’ll have more success in the long run if we can get the kids started playing an instrument that we find interesting, that is fun at parties and looks cool.
Must I really go the conventional route and start the kids with violins? Even in second grade, I found the screech and whine of the third graders’ untamed violins haunting. I’m not sure I can handle the learning curve. And besides, only Yo-Yo Ma makes strings cool.
May 27th, 2009 at 10:11 am
I heartily endorse your idea to learn your kids the guitar. But I have to say, your jaundiced memory doesn’t sit well with your parents…the engineers. Your brother’s quarter sized violin sits along side a trumpet, a coronet, a guitar, banjo and probably a flute, and your keyboard…which you are gonna get first time we drive to Cali. It IS true that you were forced to play soccer and not forced to take music lessons. Soccer was twice a week and social (not to mention tiring for the kids and amusint to the adults.) Music lessons, though you had a few at school, require daily discipline. We shall check back on your progress with that pipe dream in a few months. At least the guitar is a portable and social intrument.